Guest Post: Seven Ways to Beat Writer’s Block

Woman with writers blockAll writers will inevitably deal with writer’s block. It’s that crushing feeling that happens when your brain is moving, but your fingers can’t seem to find the words or worse, when your fingers are ready, but your brain has been squeezed dry. So instead of writing, your focus becomes the threatening cursor that blinks furiously at you. Write something, write something, write something. But you can’t.

I find that writer’s block fluctuates with the seasons. In the fall, the words flow freely, turning page upon page, but then winter comes and the words find themselves bundled tightly inside; suffocating, stifled.

As a professional writer, I don’t have time to have writer’s block–I have to make money every season, not just the fruitful ones–so I’ve had to learn how to work around my mental roadblocks. Try using some of these tips if you’re like me and your writer’s block comes and goes with a looming predictability or it appears out of nowhere.

Take Time–

Some times our best bet is to just walk away for awhile. Put the computer or pen down, back away and immerse yourself into something else. This something else could last an hour, a day, a week, a month or even a year. Take the time you need to collect yourself and then sit back down. A mental break can help us subconsciously find the words, allowing us to hit the ground running when we return.

Sleep–

One of my favorite techniques happens to be one of my favorite things to do: sleep. As writer’s, we know the pangs of staying up late and getting up early to finish something on deadline. It’s simply the nature of writing, but sometimes the words just get stuck and you can’t think of a work around–that’s when I go to sleep. Nothing is going to happen at this point, so give up, crawl into bed and snag a few hours of sleep. You’re mind will be fresh when you wake up and you’ll suddenly realize you had the answer all along.

Exercise–

A lot of times, I know where I need my writing needs to go, but I just don’t know how to get there. I like to go running when this happens, but any exercise will do. Besides all of the obvious benefits of exercise, it also actually strengthens your brain and I find that it helps me clear my mind and solve problems all in one stride. Exercise can help you physically move the brain rock out of the way.

Relax and De-Stress–

Stress can destroy us. It can cause us to gain weight, lose hair, wreck havoc on our immune system and can even impede our writing. Dealing with stress is important for everyone, so pay attention to your body and see if it’s stress that’s been weighing you down. If so, learn some techniques that will have you manage it like trying yoga, taking a bath or even engaging in some own personal self loving. Sex stores like Adameve.com can help you out in that department.

Join a Writing Group–

Find local writing groups in your area and join one. Writing groups are a great way to meet people and practice a different kind of writing style, approach or form. Often, we get stuck in our own head and voice, so it can be beneficial to push ourselves out from time to time.

Write and Write Again–

Just sit down and write. Write anything and keep writing. You’ll hate every word. Sentences will look wrong and the writing (in your mind) will be atrocious. Just keep going. Sometimes we have to mentally pull back each layer that’s covering our writing juju and writing can do that.

Schedule Yourself–

Finally, try to nail down when you write the best. I used to be a 2AM’er, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed that I write best between the hours of 6AM and 10AM, so I schedule myself as such. Don’t waste your time by sitting down at 10PM if you know you don’t write well then. Fill those hours with other enjoyable activities and then force yourself to sit down when you know the writing will actually come.

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Cover Reveal: Watch Me Walk Away by Jill Prand

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Title: Watch Me Walk Away

Author: Jill Prand

Editor: Jodi Murphy
Cover Artist: Airicka Phoenix
Genre: Romance, Contemporary

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Blurb:
At the age of seventeen, Lisa was broken when Bobby left. He was suppose to be her first. First Love. First Time. First Everything. No word for six long years. She moved away from the painful reminders sacrificing her relationship with her best friend Brad. She struggled to rebuild her life.

Now six years later she returns as a strong, successful woman grabbing a job at one of New York’s hottest marketing agencies. She is dating a gorgeous guy with his eyes on a corner office. But it all changes when she sees Bobby again.

Can she risk another heartbreak from Bobby? Will she be able to repair her friendship with Brad? Lisa will have to decide between the man she’s with, and the two men that want her.

Who will she be with, and who will she tell to “Watch Me Walk Away?”

Teaser# 1:

“The Letter”

Hi Baby,
I hope the rest of your day went well. I have not been able to concentrate on anything since I left you. I finally decided to get on the plane earlier than planned so I can hear your voice sooner.

I left a few things for your ankle. Please use them, I would have rather taken care of you myself but I have to make this trip. Arthur has been instructed to pick you up and take you to and from work for the rest of the week. I know you are going to balk at this but please let him do this. He would just be sitting around otherwise.

I stop reading and look in the box. An ace bandage, bottle of water, ice pack and Tylenol are all present as well as a small wrapped gift. I take the box out and my heart starts pounding. It is definitely a jewelry box and I know exactly what’s in it. I place it beside me and go back to reading.

To say I’ll miss you seems redundant. I’ve been missing you for years. People have called me heartless and they’re right. My heart resides with you and the only time I feel anything is when I’m in your presence. My greatest hope is that someday you will give me your heart again so I can finally feel complete.

You don’t have to open the gift now but I need you to have it. When you are sure about me, when you are ready to love and trust me again I ask that you wear it. It is a symbol of my commitment to you and seeing it on you will be the happiest day of my life. Once you see it I know you will understand. I found it two years ago and I just couldn’t let it sit in my drawer when I knew it belonged with you. I hope you don’t feel like I’m pushing you, I am just excited that you said we can try.

I will call you when I land. I can’t wait to hear your voice. I plan on keeping you on the phone for hours just so I can hear you talk. I want to be the last thing you think about before you close those gorgeous brown eyes. You are that to me, the first and last thing I think about every day, always.

I will speak with you soon. Open the box take care of you ankle and think of me.

I Miss You,
Bobby

Jill Prand photoAuthor Bio:

https://www.goodreads.com/JillPrand

twitter username: @jprand

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Jill-Prand-Author/548364751874871?fref=ts

About this author:

I live in Northern New Jersey. I am a wife and mother of two girls.

I have been an avid reader my whole life, I cannot remember a Sunday afternoon that did not include my parents reading. We had a huge bookshelf in our den with a diverse set of authors like Ayn Rand, Stephen King, Mario Puzo & Danielle Steele.

I have always had ideas and characters running around my head but it took a few good friends to push me to start putting them down on paper.

I hope you enjoy my musings. Please feel free to contact me I would love to hear from you.

 

Excerpt:

I hear his car pull up and am out the door like a bullet. I wave to Arthur in the front seat and the back door opens and he is here. I freeze and just look at him. God he looks good enough to eat. He shuts the door and walks up to me and stops. I want to throw myself at him and shove my tongue in his mouth.

“Hi Beautiful,” he lifts his hand to caress my cheek. “God you look good. I missed you.” And that’s it. I grab his hair and pull him down for a kiss. We both groan when our mouths touch. His arms
go around me and he picks me up and holds me close. Our mouths open at the same time and our tongues battle for dominance. All thought has left my mind I just want to get closer to him. I wrap my legs around him and use my thighs to push up so my mouth is above his. One of his arms goes under my ass to hold me up. Both my hands are now in his hair my elbows resting on his arms. He nips on my lower lip and I counter by sucking on his tongue. Finally I need to take a breath and pull away.

“Hi Handsome,” I pant. I release the pressure of my thighs a little so I am more eye level with him.

“Wow, that was some welcome,” he smiles at me.

 

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Magic Touch Giveaway Hop: Worth the Wait by Nicole Andrews Moore

 

 

Charmed.  You remember the show.  And if you don’t then it would be easy enough to get all caught up because it still exists in re-runs on cable daily.

That television show started a time period where wicca became mainstream, where paranormal was crazy cool, when witches were revered instead of drowned or burned at the stake.  And so…I gave into the fascination and researched.  Soon enough, my need for empowerment grew, which is when I did what I so often do.  I wrote.  I crafted a tale to feed my soul.  I had to believe that despite being mired down in a ridiculous amount of BS with the current hubby, that I deserved a happily every after.

The story came to me quite easily…a woman with gifts and promise who just needs a little guidance and a whole lot of love.  Lucky for her, there is a man who has been stuck in the friend zone, but seeks so much more.

Worth the Wait Blurb:

When Sarah discovered lingerie in her husband’s vehicle, she knew her life would be changed forever, but she never could have predicted how much. Soon, what began as a harmless Girl’s Night Out with a friend for a tarot card reading turned into a shocking realization that her mother had kept a huge part of her heritage from her, and her dreams of late suggested that her good friend Brian wanted to be more than just a good friend.

For as long as he had known Sarah, Brian had felt an undeniable attraction to her. The longer he knew her, the more he wanted from their friendship. He would do anything to heal her heart and help her become who she was meant to be. He would do everything within his power to protect her from harm and save her from the forces that threatened to keep them apart because he knew some loves are so special that they are worth the wait.WorththeWaitAMnBNecoverJPG

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Two winners will receive Worth the Wait ebooks.  And one winner will receive a signed paperback of Worth the Wait.  Three winners will choose an ebook by Nicole Andrews Moore:

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Blog Tour: The Upside of Letting Go by Nacole Stayton

upside-of-letting-go-bannerEBook tulg finalTitle: The Upside of Letting Go

Author:  Nacole Stayton

Genre: New Adult

Publish Date:  April 20, 2013

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Book Blurb:

Haley Martin decides the only way to let go of her lingering nightmares is to literally move on. Taking a leap of faith she finds herself enrolling at a campus hundreds of miles away from home.

She leaves any thoughts of dating again in Jersey, that is until fate crosses her path with a blue-eyed stud named Kyler King. He is notoriously known for being emotionally unattainable, but his façade is only to hide the burdens he bares every day.

As Kyler and Haley’s physical attraction becomes deeper, the secrets of the past threaten to surface. When Haley’s past collides with the present, will her secrets prove too big of an obstacle hindering their happily ever after, or will letting go be the key that locks their bond forever?

Goodreads:  http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17189305-the-upside-of-letting-go

Author Interview:

What part of the writing process is the hardest for you, whether it’s first draft, rewriting, or editing?

I am extreamly OCD, so the intial first draft is the hardest. I keep a notebook with me at all times and write down character bios and the storyline. Don’t get me wrong, my characters do have a mind of their own, and there are tons of turns they took me down while writing TULG that I wasn’t expecting.  But I like to have a certain picture painted in the beginning. It helps me feel less scattered brained.

What was your favorite chapter (or part) to write and why?

There are so many! I don’t want to spoil it, so I will say I loved writing chapter 6,18, and the epoligue.

What would you say is your interesting writing quirk?

I can’t really write around others. I have tried to bring my laptop into the living room, to have some sort of “family” time. But every single time I end up getting frustrated and locking myself back in my office. I guess I like to write in the quietness of my own thoughts. I hope that doesn’t make me sound like some weird, secluded freak! Haha

 When did you first start writing and when did you finish your first book?

I started in September 2012, and I finished somtime in March.

 Which character speaks the loudest, to you? Do any of them clamor to be heard over the others?

This is technically Haley’s story, but at certain times I caught myself wondering how Kyler and Jude were feeling. On the flip side of things, they have their own emotions and I think it would be awesome to sit down for a day and write in their POVs. There actually is a little surprise at a stop on my blog tour. You’ll just have to wait and see! Hehe

Nacole Stayton Author PicAbout the Author:

Nacole Stayton was born and raised Christian “Nacole” Stayton. She is twenty-three years young and currently resides in the Bluegrass state, Kentucky. She spends her days working at the local hospital and nights writing vigorously on her current novel. She has a passion for helping others and wears her University of Kentucky gear proudly. While her husband loves all things outdoors Nacole enjoys the finer things in life like getting pedicures while reading on her Kindle Fire. Her hair color changes with the seasons and she has a weakness for tattoos and iced coffee.

Author Links:  FACEBOOK | BLOG | TWITTER

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(1) digital copy of The Upside of Letting Go by Nacole Stayton. The book will be sent from the author and is open internationally.

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Some appreciation is in order…

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JB McGee and Indie Pixel Studio made the banner and covers for me. Just wait until the Finally Found cover reveal!

There’s really only one way to say this. So here it is:

I am blessed.

Really. I am. The year is nearly one third of the way over and I have to tell you that it has been spectacular. There is something so fulfilling about being able to do what I love and earn a living. There is something so amazing about being happily married. Don’t even get me started on Kenna.

We just returned from a cruise. We haven’t been on vacation since our destination wedding. And while that was lovely and perfect in ways that I never could have envisioned, we have been through quite a bit since then. There was the challenging pregnancy, the six months Kenna was in the hospital, and then nine months of isolation. By January…I was climbing the walls.

There were some melt downs with loads of tears. Sam did his best to talk me off the ledge. He promised that we would get away as soon as possible if I could just hang on. So I did. And I found a way to channel all of that pent up energy, discovered how to help the family and fulfill my dreams at the same time.

In January, I started working with JB McGee. Every little thing she told me to do, I did. Every change I made was incredibly beneficial. JB knows her stuff. By February, I published Sugar Daddy.  It was incredibly well received.  February was a super exciting month.  March saw the publication of Hiding Out.  It was so popular that I had to agree to write a sequel…only I was already committed to writing Stormy Surrender, the first book in the New Hope series.  That’s why the sequel, Finally Found, will be published at the beginning of May.

My life is dramatically different in every way.  Good ways.  The best ways.

So, I need to show my appreciation.  And I only know one way to do that.  It’s kind of my thing.  I love a good giveaway.  This one is pretty great.  It will run through the end of the month.  It’s my big thank you to all of you.
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Signed Book Blog Hop: Hiding Out by Nicole Andrews Moore

It’s that time again.  Blog Hop time.  And when I realized that I could give away my first signed paperback or two…I was super excited.  So, at the time I signed up, my latest release was Hiding Out.

This is the story of Haley who is about as wronged as a woman can be.  She is lost and alone and scared.  Determined to heal and hide, she runs away to the only place she can think of…New York City…with the only friend she really has left, a former college roommate named Ellen.  After a time, Haley is ready to rejoin the world.  And that timing is perfect because Ellen needs to go on maternity leave.  Who better to take over her position as personal assistant to Samuel Davenport, head of the the Davenport Agency, a NYC based ad firm?

Soon Haley is fulfilling her duties and filling Sam with wonder.  He longs to get to know her better, to uncover her mysteries, to draw her out of hiding.  Unfortunately, while doing just that, he manages to instead put her in harm’s way and potentially ruin their relationship before it can even truly begin.

Read the story in its entirety through Amazon, Kobo, or Barnes and Noble.

Or, better still, enter to win it for free…signed even.

Good enough to steal.

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Talania Blog Tour Stop and a Guest Post from Crystal D. Spears!

149002_10200968565755110_497291001_nTalania Blurb: 

Evelyn Beaumont can’t remember anything from the time she was 14 until she was 19. She lost five years of her life because of brain cancer. Now she is a 20 years old survivor and enrolled in college, determined to reclaim her life. There she meets Tristan Monroe, but it isn’t the first time they’ve met. In fact, Tristan and Evelyn were once in love. It was a love so strong that it shattered him when, after the three years they had spent together, she never came back to Laguna.

Evelyn wants nothing more than to have her memories back. With the help of Tristan and his brother Drake, they take Evelyn on an emotional journey filled with videos, photos, and memorabilia…a walk down memory lane.

While they stroll down memory lane, Evelyn must learn to deal with Tristan’s rock star fame and the ever-present groupies. She struggles to find herself and to learn to love again.

Is their love strong enough to overcome the memory loss? Is it strong enough to survive whatever comes their way? Will all the proof Tristan shares with her be enough to show her how deeply they loved each other? Will love find Evelyn once again?

My question for Crystal…

What are your top five places to visit? And why?

My top five locations to visit and why…

1) Egypt – Ever since I started reading – I’ve been completely obsessed with all things Egypt and Egyptian related. Something about it just draws me in and I can get lost in the history of it all for hours upon hours.
2) Paris – For many reasons, but for the main important reason to me would be because my Mom may she rest in peace – always wanted to go. And one day – I will go for her.
3) I would like to travel the trail of tears, the historic trail. My Mother was Cherokee not full blood, but enough to where our heritage was very important to her. My father is also Shawnee. I can speak very little of both languages and that is another thing I will learn fluently.
4) Yellowstone National Park – The world’s largest super volcano resides there. I would like to see the place that holds such a deadly force in its wake, but yet can still be beautiful. I just don’t understand that.
5) Tahiti – I am obsessed with beaches and Tahiti has some of the most gorgeous beaches on this earth.

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Happy Release Day for Gravitational Pull by Marissa Carmel

GP cover finalTitle: Gravitational Pull (Vis Vires Trilogy #2)

Author: Marissa Carmel

Release Day: April 4th, 2013

Genre: New Adult Paranormal Romance

Blurb-

Touch me, and bring me to life…

How do you move on when you don’t even know where you were going in the first place?

The Spirit Stalker is dead and I have finally started to erect my life. But I quickly discover, that just because the structure is built doesn’t mean the foundation is sturdy. As much as I try to manage my abilities, I can’t completely control them. The physical impossibility of the relationship I have with Justice has reached a boiling point; our fundamental problem, my inability to control myself from absorbing his power, and his fears of touching me because of it.

As if that wasn’t deal-breaker enough, a new threat looms on my horizon – Darklings.

They are grim reapers of the immortal world who surface every five-hundred-years to feed off the souls of magical beings who are weak, aimless, lost; those who have given up and want to move on.

They also hunt power. Which means, they’re hunting me.

Abandoned by the one person I need the most, I find myself in Melenia’s realm.  There, I’m courted by Siberian, a dangerous pixie who covets me, hunted by Death personified; all the while hiding my powers and my ancient bloodline. The pixie prince is alluring, and I feel so broken and vulnerable. I know giving in to him means giving myself over to him. But right now, I don’t care. All I want is to feel anything other than the loss and rejection Justice left me with.

Anything other than pain.

So what do I do when I’m scared to be touched, even though I know it’s the only way to bring my soul back to life?

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Author Bio:

Marissa Carmel has been writing since a young age and although it has always been for personal enjoyment, she finally decided breakout and share her imagination with the world. She hopes that her universe is as fun and intriguing to her readers as it is to her. Marissa Carmel is originally from NJ but moved to Maryland several years ago, she enjoys reading, writing, and catching up on her ever growing DVR library. She is currently working on the sequel to iFeel, Gravitational Pull and the third and final installment of the Vis Vires trilogy, Constellation.

 

Links:

GoodReads: http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/5211765.Marissa_Carmel

Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Marissa-Carmel/e/B005OKFXXU/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_2?qid=1361243544&sr=8-2

Twitter: https://twitter.com/marissacarmel

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/marissa.carmel.5

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Web/Blog: http://marissacarmel.com/

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Excerpt-

 

As we dance, glitter falls all around us. Enchanting the dream-like atmosphere, but I can’t escape the music’s haunting melody, and the reality that reminds me of the truth, that I’m not undamaged. I just desperately try to pretend.

“I could dance like this with you forever,” Siberian whispers as he pulls me tighter.

There it is again, that word, forever. I despise it, mainly because, to me, it pertains more to a prison sentence than anything else.

“I’d get old after a while,” I say with my cheek pressed hopelessly against him.

“I know that would never be true.” He slides his hands up my body to my face and stares down at me with glossy silver eyes. “I would like nothing more than for you to stay here with me Liv. I can give you everything you could ever want, all your heart’s desires.”

I stare back at him silently. As tender, and as terrifying, as that proclamation is, my heart only desires one thing, and right now, he is standing across the courtyard, shooting me a demonic stare.

This is wrong, this is so so wrong, parading myself like this in front of Justice. But I just can’t pull myself away. Siberian’s searing gaze has me, and I want so much to just get lost in the moment, to feel his touch. I put my hands over his and brace for his lips, allowing him to have me, if only for a second. Then suddenly I jump: I’ve just been energy checked right in the gut.

 

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Fairy Tale Giveaway Hop

Once upon a time, there was a graduate student who was fortunate enough to find a really amazing English professor to be her advisor for her master’s thesis.  That professor shared her love of fairy tales and even encouraged her to research and write one to earn her degree.  So that student read every Cinderella story she could find.  She read the Appalachian version which was remarkably similar to King Lear.  She learned why telling someone that they are loved like meat loves salt is a better compliment than imagined.  She checked out more than fifty different Cinderella stories in all.

From her studies she learned that when it comes to Cinderella, her very name should mean beauty…hence the naming of her heroine: Isabella, Bella for short.  This writer learned the significance of numbers in these tales, hence the reason there were three proposals.  She decided that to create a contemporary version of the tale, she had to swap out glass slippers for engagement rings and balls for trips.  Instead of an evil step-mother, Isabella was adopted.  And a wealthy foreigner filled the role of the prince.

Most of all, there is magical realism in this tale.  Though it is the first novel I ever finished writing, it will forever hold a special place in my heart.  More importantly, it has been given a new look, new formatting, and is the first in the Dreams Come True Trilogy.  The next story in the trilogy will be out in June: Second Chances.

Enter to be one of five lucky winners to receive the new First a Dream ebook with a cover created by JB McGee and the formatting completed by Awesome Possum Formatting.
The entries will be managed by Rafflecopter.  And the winners will be selected by Random.org.  I will contact the winners by email to determine which format works best for them.  If I don’t hear back in 48 hrs, a new winner will be chosen.

Good luck!  I believe in Happily Ever After.

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