Comments on: Looks like hair! http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/2009/11/15/looks-like-hair/ Because life's a journey that's meant to be shared... Sun, 05 Feb 2012 23:21:48 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Travis http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/2009/11/15/looks-like-hair/comment-page-1/#comment-552 Travis Mon, 16 Nov 2009 03:07:50 +0000 http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/?p=1681#comment-552 Oops, I thought I was confirming your thoughts, but from a male perspective. So, yeah, uh... your welcome? :) Unabashed, is my motto. My creed. :) Okay, it's not the only one. From what you said, I didn't think he was pushy, just that he had an opportunity to compliment you and he didn't take it <b>[ I'm not saying he did this, I wasn't there ]</b> ;) I apologize if I stepped out of line. I slept pretty much the whole day and the cough no longer hurts, but it's there in full force. I do feel better... but that could be the meds. :) Thanks for asking. :) Oops, I thought I was confirming your thoughts, but from a male perspective. So, yeah, uh… your welcome? :)

Unabashed, is my motto. My creed. :) Okay, it’s not the only one.

From what you said, I didn’t think he was pushy, just that he had an opportunity to compliment you and he didn’t take it [ I'm not saying he did this, I wasn't there ] ;)

I apologize if I stepped out of line.

I slept pretty much the whole day and the cough no longer hurts, but it’s there in full force. I do feel better… but that could be the meds. :)

Thanks for asking. :)

]]> By: thenicknick http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/2009/11/15/looks-like-hair/comment-page-1/#comment-551 thenicknick Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:21:11 +0000 http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/?p=1681#comment-551 Huh. I didn't look at it like that. He wasn't pushy about it. Geez, now I'm re-examining last weekend's date! Thanks for that. On the other hand, now I know where to go if I want an unabashed male perspective. Feeling better? (The cough...) Huh. I didn’t look at it like that. He wasn’t pushy about it. Geez, now I’m re-examining last weekend’s date! Thanks for that. On the other hand, now I know where to go if I want an unabashed male perspective.

Feeling better? (The cough…)

]]> By: thenicknick http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/2009/11/15/looks-like-hair/comment-page-1/#comment-550 thenicknick Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:18:50 +0000 http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/?p=1681#comment-550 But Meredith...if I show you a picture I might find out that you don't like me anymore and you're shallow like all the guys on craigslist! (Nahhh!) I'll have a pretty day soon and take a picture for you. Then the mystery will wear off and I'll have lost all my allure. Guss I'll just have to lure you back with my wit and sarcasm. Oh, the pressure! Hope you're having a nice day with the boys! But Meredith…if I show you a picture I might find out that you don’t like me anymore and you’re shallow like all the guys on craigslist! (Nahhh!) I’ll have a pretty day soon and take a picture for you. Then the mystery will wear off and I’ll have lost all my allure.

Guss I’ll just have to lure you back with my wit and sarcasm. Oh, the pressure!

Hope you’re having a nice day with the boys!

]]> By: Meredith http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/2009/11/15/looks-like-hair/comment-page-1/#comment-549 Meredith Sun, 15 Nov 2009 19:14:25 +0000 http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/?p=1681#comment-549 What does the bob look like? It certainly sounds like you took a big plunge, and I'm glad it turned out to be something helpful. She "cut off" some of your unhappiness. :) What does the bob look like? It certainly sounds like you took a big plunge, and I’m glad it turned out to be something helpful. She “cut off” some of your unhappiness. :)

]]> By: Travis http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/2009/11/15/looks-like-hair/comment-page-1/#comment-548 Travis Sun, 15 Nov 2009 14:55:04 +0000 http://suddenlysinglejourney.com/?p=1681#comment-548 He gave an interesting response. I find that response to be selfish. The best thing he could of said was, "You look great in that picture, but I like you more the way you are now" This would diverted your response, and allowed you to learn how he saw you and received a compliment at the same time. it's a win-win. This appears to not have started out very well, if they have to be told to see you for you. I have strong opinions about people trying to make themselves out to be what others want. One, I don't find it very attractive, (When I look into your eyes, I want to see you, not what someone else wanted) I'm certain you've already realized, when you start living for yourself and finding that happiness, that the other points in your life will start taking care of themselves. Awesome post. Thanks. He gave an interesting response. I find that response to be selfish. The best thing he could of said was, “You look great in that picture, but I like you more the way you are now”

This would diverted your response, and allowed you to learn how he saw you and received a compliment at the same time. it’s a win-win. This appears to not have started out very well, if they have to be told to see you for you.

I have strong opinions about people trying to make themselves out to be what others want. One, I don’t find it very attractive, (When I look into your eyes, I want to see you, not what someone else wanted)

I’m certain you’ve already realized, when you start living for yourself and finding that happiness, that the other points in your life will start taking care of themselves.

Awesome post. Thanks.

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