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You know how I do…

Author: thenicknick

tree of life Some women need grand gestures.  They need the flowers and jewelry and chocolate.  They need the fancy restaurants.  I take and hold dear all the little things.

Last night, after we finished a lovely meal out on the patio where I ate my food grilled and he had all of his deep fried, he turned to me and jokingly apologized that it wasn’t a candlelight dinner.  And I laughed and reminded him, for the umpteenth time, that I don’t care about those things.  I know how he feels without the words.  I know how he feels without the traditional symbols.  And I fairly glow as a result.

Life is all about the little things.  It’s about…

  • offering to build me a swingset in the back yard with two swings on it so he can talk to me while I swing
  • buying drumsticks, even though he prefers wings because I haven’t had them in a while
  • throwing two gutter balls in a row so that we end the game tied
  • about kissing my boo boo, even if it’s just a tiny one
  • taking the scenic route home so he can give me a tour of his life
  • wanting a tour of mine
  • going to Sam’s Club twice in one day so I can exchange the camis I grabbed in the wrong size
  • telling me how cute I look bowling
  • telling me how great I look, and meaning it
  • picking me up and spinning me around when I make a strike as though I am feather-light
  • making sure I have fun
  • acknowledging when  I’m blissfully happy and offering to do what it takes to keep me that way forever
  • ending an amazing night by holding me while I sleep

And that was just yesterday.  Who needs flowers and candlelight?  Who needs jewerly and chocolates?  Okay, maybe the chocolates a little.

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